My wedding is less than four weeks away.  Since I began planning, I have bought two different veils and changed my idea for my hairstyle four times.  Now I am wondering: Should I or should I not, wear a tiara?

Overall, I would not consider myself a "tiara" sort of girl.  I opted for the black chair covers rather than the white, and my bridesmaids are walking down the aisle in leopard print dresses, black birdcage veils, and clutches with diamonds in place of rose bouquets. I actually originally wanted to walk down the aisle to Brian May from Queen playing "The Wedding March", but was disabused of it.

Yet, when I imagine myself walking down the aisle, I look like a Princess. There are crystals shimmering from my dress and veil. Everything is soft and bellowing.  Occasionally, I do imagine falling on my way up the stairs to the stage, which is highly plausible, but mostly I imagine myself as graceful and elegant.

 Could I actually be a "tiara" sort of girl?  I guess I'm still figuring that out.  I thought I would know by the end of this post, but I'm still at a loss.  Fortunately, I still have four weeks to decide and really, it is just one day.  One very special day.